@readswithravi When you create a problem, you create pain. All it takes is a simple choice, a simple decision; no matter what happens I will create no more pain for myself. - Eckhart Tolle
My sister fits that description to a T. She's alone though, completely. It's unpleasant to be with her. She's wound tight and snaps at me if I make simple mistakes. I know this is a result of her conditioning. We had a very tumultous childhood - alcoholism and domestic violence.
@WallStreetApes One time my husband unintentionally went to an out of network ER and he had to stay 5 days. Our insurance co said if it’s an emergency they’ll pays. it was definitely an emergency but they came up with a loophole not to pay a cent. The hospital gave us a 60% discount in the end.