BASIC SKILL YANG HARUS DIMILIKI SEORANG DOM !
1. Self-control : before you try to control someone, lo harus bisa control yourself dulu. Jangan sampai ego, anger, atau jealousy yang actually take over.
2. Communication :
harus bisa talk clearly. What you want, what your partner wants, what’s okay, and what’s definitely not okay.
3. Know the boundaries :
lo harus ngerti mana yang hard limit, soft limit, dan mana yang memang udah mutually agreed.
4. Emotional intelligence :
jangan cuma lihat “dia nurut atau nggak”. Lo juga harus bisa read the room dan notice kalau something feels off.
5. Decision making :
situasi bisa berubah anytime, so lo harus bisa make a calm decision instead of acting impulsively.
6. Consistency :
kalau udah bikin rules atau agreement, jangan tiba-tiba berubah cuma karena lagi moody.
7. Responsibility :
being a Dom comes with responsibility. Lo punya role buat make sure everything stays safe and consensual.
8. Negotiation :
sebelum anything happens, discuss dulu what’s on the table and what’s off the table.
9. Aftercare :
jangan habis session langsung “okay bye 😂”. Check on your partner, talk about how they felt, and make sure they're actually okay.
10. Humility :
this one is underrated. Being dominant doesn’t mean lo always right. A mature Dom knows when to listen, admit mistakes, and adjust.
Basically, being a Dom isn’t about having the most control over someone. It’s about having enough control over yourself to lead someone responsibly.
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