Space Grace, temporal anomaly 🕰️🌌🇵🇸

She/Her/Dude. #ADHD, #ActuallyAutistic, demisexual.
Still yelling about COVID. Listen to disabled people.

pfp: @alohasushicore

[Space Grace, temporal anomaly 🕰️🌌🇵🇸 @dreamsofskies]

After much nudging, you can also find me where the skies are blue. (Same handle)

[Space Grace, temporal anomaly 🕰️🌌🇵🇸 @dreamsofskies]

@aTiredOwl Lmao😂

[Gemini Princesss @MaskedHottiee]

I’ve said this before but if you’re chronically ill DO NOT QUIT YOUR JOB. Make sure you get long term disability insurance, and if you can pay the extra to get 80-100% of your pay do it. Know your company’s FMLA and disability policies

[Space Grace, temporal anomaly 🕰️🌌🇵🇸 @dreamsofskies]

There are SO many normal things I don't have to be afraid of being caught doing anymore.

I want to make a list of them for future me, I think.

[Space Grace, temporal anomaly 🕰️🌌🇵🇸 @dreamsofskies]

I've finally moved away from my abuser, after 3 years of having to stay with her for survival. I have a place of my own again.

I'm happy to have made it, but the relief is... slow. It's taking a while for my body to realize and accept that things are safer now.

[Space Grace, temporal anomaly 🕰️🌌🇵🇸 @dreamsofskies]

For the first time in years, today I was allowed to start a NORMAL dishwasher load. Without overcrowding the dishwasher, without washing every single dish by hand first. With ORDINARY, inexpensive, not-greenwashed dishwasher detergent. And without having to ask for permission.

[Kendra @SurvivingCFS]

I genuinely think homelessness and poverty can lead to some serious disordered eating and we don’t talk about it enough.

[Space Grace, temporal anomaly 🕰️🌌🇵🇸 @dreamsofskies]

@mbeilste @SurvivingCFS Was gonna say this too. My mom often got irritated with me when she saw me resting, or watching TV or playing games. I actually still have trouble playing games for longer stretches of time because my brain keeps expecting someone to be mad at me for it.

[they/them might be giants ☭ @babadookspinoza]

People used to talk about climate change as though at some point it’d get bad enough that we couldn’t deny it and had to address it. Covid made it clear that the bigger a problem is, the more tempting it is to believe it’s not real, and the more investment people have in denial.

[En(during COVID) @DEC0L0NIZE]

word and on a related note!

[morningstar (THEY/THEM) @stichedstars]

my hot take— if someone sees it as trauma dumping, you don’t want them in your life. the right people will understand this is just reality and will want to be there for you

[Space Grace, temporal anomaly 🕰️🌌🇵🇸 @dreamsofskies]

@Obelis12 I have this thought every day 🥲

[Space Grace, temporal anomaly 🕰️🌌🇵🇸 @dreamsofskies]

@TweetATherapist That was my initial thought too... Like, why the heck is "pleasant relationship with parents" even a metric here? How do we know the parents are emotionally mature, and don't take the kids' differing thoughts and feelings as a personal attack?

[Space Grace, temporal anomaly 🕰️🌌🇵🇸 @dreamsofskies]

@dogsmellsgood You should check out /r/earrumblers

[Space Grace, temporal anomaly 🕰️🌌🇵🇸 @dreamsofskies]

@drorydress @DopaminePlsMe This has been my strategy too. No one at home wants to wake up at 6 am and make demands of me.

[DeeDee - ADHD Helper @DopaminePlsMe]

Revenge bedtime procrastination with ADHD is a special kind of hell. I am physically exhausted, but I refuse to go to sleep because 2 AM is the only time the universe stops making demands. I am actively destroying my tomorrow just to experience three hours of unsupervised, demand-free existence today

[Skulk Of Roses @SkulkofRoses]

Simultaneously, these pejoratives are misused to describe actual despicable individuals and actions. Bigotry is not "stupidity", it is (wilful) ignorance, selfishness and evidence of being influenced by propaganda. Apoliticalness is not "lazy" it is supine, complacent, complicit.

[Skulk Of Roses @SkulkofRoses]

Alright. Thread time! "Lazy" does not exist. "Stupid" does not exist. Both terms are used to refer to such a wide spectrum of both disabilities and unrelated, wilful and often sordid attitudes and behaviours.

[four loko's basilisk 🌼🇵🇸🏳️‍⚧️⚧️ @fawnmeats]

I really think more people should be willing to go to other people's houses and help them with chores and cleaning as a form of mutual aid

[PACO @PacoOnPause]

I was curious so I did a quick search. According to reddit, "the reason he has a mask on is because he can't get sick before the upcoming shows."

Some artists understand our new reality, and others are frequently cancelling concerts.