I can be mad at you and still remain genuinely concerned about your well-being. I’m scared of ppl who only care about you when y’all are on good terms.
I can go forever not talking to someone when I know I didn’t do them wrong. That be all the closure I need and it still be all love, I just ain’t going out my way to reach out to you 💯
i’m so glad i’m able to reflect on my ways man i hate that i make mistakes but im not perfect but im at least glad that i’m not blind to my own bullshit and short comings
Unfortunately, I am a girl who takes words to heart ! So yes, I remember every little thing you said & it stuck with me, whether it was good or bad !
you do NOT owe anybody access to you that belittles you, talks bad about you, tears you down, disrespects your boundaries, spins false hurtful narratives, emotionally and verbally abuses you, manipulates and gaslights you.
Being an “understanding person” is the worst kind of thing. I repeat, the worst. You have to understand people’s situations, their problems, their traumas, but when it comes to you, you will scream alone. Absolutely alone.
Nobody can ever gaslight me into thinking I'm a bad person. I have my ways and I have my days, but I'm solid and my love is real and genuine every step of the way.