so much discourse could be avoided if people understood that being marginalized in one way doesn't prevent you from being privileged in another way and vice versa
you HAVE to be openly weird if you want someone to match ur freak. this dating app-driven culture of downplaying your personality for maximum broad appeal is keeping you from your soulmate!
just in case the general culture here makes u feel gaslit: yeah black superhero projects being scrapped for no reason is absolutely a sign of the times. history is rhyming. it’s like when black sitcoms disappeared after 9/11.
Christopher Nolan says one problem with modern amateur criticism for films is people recognizing a narrative trope & seeing that as a negative.
“To be able to identify the mechanism doesn’t invalidate the mechanism.”
(Source: @ZhugeYY)
your critique of ai cannot be entrenched in aesthetics because there will be a time when you see an ai image or hear an ai song and think "that looks/sounds good". your critique of ai must always be entrenched in the poisonous effect it has on people's brains and the planet.
coming out to homophobic parents while you're financially dependent on them still AND living under their roof is NOT living in your truth. Literally HUSHHH. Don't say shit! Living in your truth deadass translates to "u need to afford yo own shit first." You are at risk!!!!!
cismens violence is often physical, while ciswomens violence is through social exclusion and communal alienation through reputational damage.
So it tracks! Homophobic men will crush your skull, and homophobic women will OUT you so your community abandons you.
Both are death
Francesca Hong just won the Democratic primary for governor in Wisconsin. Meaning, she's now positioned to become the first female governor of Wisconsin--and the first Korean governor in the US
I 100% believe this fell apart because Disney didn't want to show Blade killing a bunch of white vampires and couldn't write their way around it without more or less writing Blade out.
The key phrase here is, “You barely ever see anyone in a bonnet.”
That alone tells me bonnets and durags were never some widespread problem on campus. At most, a few students may wear them occasionally, probably on days when they are tired, rushing, dealing with their hair, or simply do not feel like dressing up. Every human being deserves the freedom to have an off day without being treated like they lack standards or self-respect.
So if students are barely wearing these items in the first place, why was a ban even necessary?
To me, that makes it clear that this policy was not created to address an actual disruption. It was created because certain people in leadership personally view bonnets, durags, and other forms of Black hair care as “ghetto,” embarrassing, or beneath the image they want the school to project.
This policy is essentially telling students that they are never allowed to look tired, be comfortable, protect their hair, or have a lazy day. They must constantly perform someone else’s idea of respectability, even when they are simply going to class or eating in the cafeteria.
And if the behavior was barely happening to begin with, then this was never really about correcting a problem. It was about policing an image.
I don’t fine it surprising at all
When feminism online has been turned into a lazy, reductive “women=good, men=bad” for the last couple of years, is it really surprising that many queer women put their allegiance to straight women over solidarity with queer men?
the man in the photo is my cousin Mahmoud Al Dremali. my family is in a panic trying to find info on what the zios did to him and if he’s alive. we have no information at all.