When Allah wants you to grow, He makes you lonely, uncomfortable, anxious, tired, & allows you to suffer, but He never lets you fail. He holds your hand & guides you toward what He wants you to become, then unveils His beautiful surprises for you. So, have sabr and wait!
"i’m just blunt." no you aren't blunt. you just don’t care how you talk to people because you think your opinion is more important than respect or courtesy. i hate when people think the only way to be truthful is to be blunt, harsh or rude.
Anxiety craves consistency like oxygen. Don’t come at me with vibes you won’t keep—it’s like handing someone a blanket, then ripping it away as soon as they start to feel warm. That hot and cold, that push and pull? It’s torture when you’re anxious. One minute sweet, the next ice-cold. It’s like whiplash for the heart, and it leaves you feeling like you’re always one step away from losing the ground beneath you. I need stable, I need steady—don’t bring warmth unless you’re ready to stay by the fire.
i immediately go silent when something upsets or hurts me. it's a coping mechanism i have developed over time. instead of expressing my anger or frustration, i simply withdraw and try to process my emotions in private.