@Obinno488151 13/ Before doing something publicly, ask yourself: “Would I be comfortable watching my son or daughter copy this exact behaviour tomorrow?”
@Obinno488151 12/ Parents, your children are listening to your instructions, but they are also studying your life. Sometimes what they see will speak louder than everything you have told them.
@Obinno488151 11/ None of us is perfect. People make mistakes. But there is strength in recognising when you crossed your own boundary and saying: “I shouldn’t have done that. I take responsibility.”
@Obinno488151 10/ If you profess Christ, consistency matters. Your public life and private convictions should not continually tell two completely different stories.
@Obinno488151 7/ There should be things you can simply say: “This may be part of the script or performance, but it crosses a boundary I have chosen not to cross.” Success should not require abandoning every personal conviction.
@Obinno488151 6/ Yes, acting is a profession. Entertainment is an industry. But every profession should still leave room for personal boundaries, values and convictions.
@Obinno488151 5/ And when you become a public figure, the classroom becomes bigger. Your children are watching. Other people’s children are watching. Young men and women who admire you are watching.
@Obinno488151 4/ Once you become a parent, your life becomes part of your child’s education. Your children are studying your choices, reactions, relationships and boundaries, even when you’re not deliberately teaching them.
@Obinno488151 3/ Children don’t learn only from what we tell them. They learn from what they watch us do. Your lifestyle can either reinforce your instructions or contradict them.
@Obinno488151 2/ Imagine telling your daughter: “Guard your body. Set boundaries. Don’t allow inappropriate physical contact.” Then she watches you publicly behaving in a way that seems to contradict what you taught her. What message does that send?
@Obinno488151 1/ This conversation is bigger than one actress, one performance or one moment on stage. The real question is: What are we modelling for the children watching us? A generation is watching.
@Obinno488151 8/ And this conversation cannot be only about women. Men must examine themselves too. Husbands, fathers, actors, musicians, pastors and influencers must consider what their behaviour communicates.
@Obinno488151 9/ Be careful what you repeatedly allow into your mind. Music, movies, conversations and environments can influence our emotions and behaviour. “Keep thy heart with all diligence; for out of it are the issues of life.” — Proverbs 4:23
@Obinno488151 14/ If the answer troubles you, perhaps you have discovered where you need to DRAW THE LINE.
Your gift may give you a platform, but your character determines what you model from that platform.
@Obinno488151 13/ Before doing something publicly, ask yourself: “Would I be comfortable watching my son or daughter copy this exact behaviour tomorrow?”
@Obinno488151 12/ Parents, your children are listening to your instructions, but they are also studying your life. Sometimes what they see will speak louder than everything you have told them.
@Obinno488151 11/ None of us is perfect. People make mistakes. But there is strength in recognising when you crossed your own boundary and saying: “I shouldn’t have done that. I take responsibility.”
@Obinno488151 10/ If you profess Christ, consistency matters. Your public life and private convictions should not continually tell two completely different stories.
@Obinno488151 9/ Be careful what you repeatedly allow into your mind. Music, movies, conversations and environments can influence our emotions and behaviour. “Keep thy heart with all diligence; for out of it are the issues of life.” — Proverbs 4:23