Wabilahi Taokeeki gan
Modupe Lowo olorun for my city gan
You no fit run from who you are
Wetting go be, you must cast the stone
Modupe lowo olorun pe awa o sa nle o
Mo ware ware titi mo de se Amin o🙏
Modupe lowo olorun to ko mi yo o
When you're angry with your wife, and you raise your voice at her, what is she most likely to do?
She would grab any of your children and starts to shed tears or acting up.
Then your children will start to see you as a wicked daddy.
That's how it starts.
But I believe this is nature playing out in marriage.
Just because you don't want to be seen as a "wicked" father or husband, doesn't mean that you should not act when it's appropriate to do so.
You're the head of the home.
And for women, it should always be a "carrot and stick" approach.
Otherwise, anything you allow, will become the norm.
So there you have it.
Until you're mature, your mother will forever be a saint.
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@jon_d_doe I’m really excited and I must confess , this is the best wish I’ve received in my entire existence 🤭. Thank you so much agba and God bless you too 😌🙏.
If I tried to give my fiancée (now wife) money when we were dating, she would ask me what it’s for & why you are giving her money. She would reject it
I could remember the one and only time she asked me for money, 11k to be precise, 3 years into our relationship. It was cos she was in a very tight corner — she was going for her clinicals driving her dad’s car when she had a minor accident and needed it fixed before she returns home.
If you see how excited I was when she asked me for the money ehn. 😂🤣
But now that we are married, if I give her money, she go just dey shine teeth 😂🤣
She believes that if you are neither an orphan nor crippled, then you shouldn’t be collecting money from a man who isn’t your husband. That’s how they were brought up & that’s how I’m bringing up my girls.
Now you see why I really get pissed on this app when I see how men are spending on women they aren’t married to and more disgusting is women feeling entitled to a man’s money.
Your parents simply failed in giving your proper training, that’s all.
"At what age do you feel a lady should get married ? mid 20s, late 20s & early 30s."
This lady right here was interviewed with a simple question, and she left everyone shocked with her response.
You don't ask a woman, what she brings to the table.
You prepare your own table, & you decide if she's worth dining on it.
She can help you rearrange the table, to the admiration of yourself, & others.
But you must first have a table, even if the legs are incomplete.
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