how do you actually meet Muslim women that are adventurous funny and silly but emotionally intelligent and also on the same halal to haram ratio as you but also want to grow and learn togeather
Olivia Rodrigo sobre “begged”, para o Popcast:
“Quando você está em um relacionamento mais profundo e é mais velha, os problemas ficam mais sutis. Não é mais um ‘vai se foder por ter feito isso comigo’. É mais como: ‘isso aconteceu porque eu esperava isso de você e você falhou, mas, no fim das contas, você nunca prometeu que faria isso’.”
Hari wisuda ini istimewa. Besok hari-hari biasa. Namun, ujian yang sesungguhnya adalah di hari-hari biasa ke depan.
Itulah pesan yang kami sampaikan saat pulang ke UGM untuk melepas wisudawan sekaligus menyambut mereka bergabung ke Kagama.
Probably one of my favorite Euphoria scenes because it’s actually a very common real-life situation. Jules was excited to finally meet the guy she had been texting, but the meetup was in a sketchy location late at night and Rue naturally reacted by saying that maybe it wasn’t the safest idea and suggested meeting in a more public place instead.
But classic Jules immediately became defensive because in her mind she was sharing something exciting and wanted emotional support, not caution or criticism. So when Rue pushed back and focused on the danger instead of excitement, Jules interpreted it as negative energy rather than concern.
That’s why I find the scene so interesting because it perfectly shows how people have completely different ideas of what support looks like. Some people, like Jules, just want excitement and emotional validation when they share things, while others, like Rue, instinctively respond with advice and concern. A lot of miscommunication in relationships honestly comes from that exact difference.
it’s a bit ridiculous to say “the time you spend scrolling could be spent building a business/writing a novel/reading the classics”. sometimes that’s true but usually scrolling happens as a result of cognitive fatigue, and the idea that you can just “swap in” another intellectually demanding task means you’re treating your body/mind as a machine
a better approach would be “the time you spend scrolling could be spent taking a stroll/napping/staring out the window/having a meandering conversation with a friend”. that’s both more palatable and probably what we’re actually craving when we reach for our phone: a brief break from the demands of life, and a time to let our mind relax
I used to think this, but then I asked the follow up question which is “have I given anyone a reason to care about me”? And when I didn’t like the answer to that question I started to change things