@MayankSodani Moreover this is the period that teaches most important surviving skill of residency and life
" patience " when we don't have anybody its just us and way we manage or emptiness without going to anyone to fill the void! Try meditation this helped me at that time!
When someone doesn't choose you fully and freely, you're not in a relationship, you're in a lesson
And that lesson is to choose yourself
Your body feels the truth before your mind can admit it - the tightness, the anxiety, the unease
But your mind tries to justify it with: "They're just busy" "Maybe I'm asking for too much" "It'll get better"
Meanwhile your nervous system knows that love shouldn't feel like confusion, waiting or walking on eggshells
The real work is learning to stop settling for half hearted love and to start standing fully in your worth
Because the love that's meant for you won't make you question your value, it will meet you with peace!!!
Today I heard Papa and cook conversation where he was saying I don't get men who underlines the women's role in managing home, it's a toll taking job home maker's are doing . He realised this in last 9m while managing home almost single handedly as mumma has been sick.
I was lately wondering how sometimes we watch,observe and even understand but fail to convey it as something holds us . Is that we have understood the reality and now we are trying to protect our heart with harsh reality tornado that stands at doorstep to hit.
I wrnt home and papa telling me how he fired nth care taker BCOZ:
She applied moisturizer to mumma on hands and legs and used same unwashed hands to apply on face.
Period
There was a discussion at workplace on how i manage to stay calm in terrible situations be it a patient thing or with staff or colleagues or with peers.
Not wrong to use insta to build image but do only if you are good at๐ bcoz I have looking at average videos in my feeds ๐ I m a heavy judgemental ๐