Why does he need to explain his choices and his preference in a partner to anybody? Like why exactly?
I really wish men will stop explaining themselves to these clowns who never explain their own preference to you but will keep asking you stupid questions on your own preference.
I still hold that the best way to get a girlfriend is through an institution, something you guys belong to; be it school, social group or work—anything else is performative.
I honestly don’t understand women who are happy we have the right to work, the right to an education and the right to vote then EXPECT a man to pay for everything.
Are you a child ?
Are you women in the 1600s ?
A Women who places excessive economic pressure on a man doesn’t like that man or care for his wellbeing.
A woman who loves and cares about you would want to help, assist and contribute.
The only time a woman should want the man to do more financially is during pregnancy at the later stages and up till school age-4 / 5 years old of your child/children, but even then it may not be realistic and she may have to return to work. This is the reality, even if your man earns £100,000. It’s not a lot when you break down cost of living.
Campus dating is the cheapest fr, you guys understand yourselves, you both can enter cab, take a drop, go to cheap restaurants and it will still be enjoyable.
You step outside and it has to be bolt, fine dining, “Come correct or don’t come at all”, “intentional man”.
Even the level of gifting differs.
I stand with campus dating for life.
From the point of cost, I disagree with this totally.
Dating in the university is the cheapest and realest form of dating… except you’re dating a baddie or someone with already upgraded expectations.
You don’t even need much. Just a few thousand for lunch at a small fancy spot on campus, a few thousand for an ice cream date.
You can go for faculty parties, movie nights together.
Even cake alone on your partner’s birthday will turn heads.
The reason you think it’s expensive is because you’re watching Instagram and think everything has to be glamorized.
Jokes aside, how did women even start having so much audacity to start making demands on another person’s money, to the point of sounding so entitled? It’s actually crazy if you deep it.