The divine feminine is not impressed by money. If all you can offer is materialistic possessions, she won't be interested in you. We love consideration, discipline, values, men who are worthy of respect, men who make us soften in their presence. That's how we feel rich with you
This line from Atomic Habits isn't ready to leave my head:
"It doesn't make sense to continue wanting something if you're not willing to do what it takes to get it. If you don't want to live the lifestyle, then release yourself from the desire. To crave the result but not the process is to guarantee disappointment."
Stop getting so emotionally attached and enjoy experiences with a person. Be friends. Be a moment in time. Be a memory. You don't have to fall madly in love with everyone who comes your way. Just enjoy their presence for your moment together.
Being in a relationship means you must love someone the way they need you to, not just in the way that is comfortable for you. Because it's a reminder that love is not only about what I prefer giving, it's also about how the other person actually receives it. Real love takes effort, emotional maturity, and the willingness to meet each other halfway, not just show up when it feels easy.
a lot of people are wondering what the fuck they're even working toward anymore. they're feeling like they push, and push, and push, and aren't getting any closer to the lifestyle they want to live. sometimes you really do have to slow down and take a step back to realign with what matters. sometimes you have to decenter the way society has brainwashed you to view success so that you can redefine your OWN values. when you do that, you can find your way forward. what do YOU want to build? and how can you build it in a way that is comfortable and nourishing to your soul? I think we have a lot of people forcing themselves to achieve society's self-serving goals, which is pushing them further and further away from what they actually want. I get that though, chiron just entered taurus, so collectively, we're worried more than ever about resources... money... saving... bills.. how to make ENOUGH to afford everything. it's hard to even contemplate what YOU want out of life outside of money when you're just trying to survive. I don't have a solution for that. I wish I did. I just know that this capricorn full moon energy is so much bigger than what society wants you to believe "success" and "achievement" and "legacy" mean. just my thoughts.
does anyone else get insanely romantically frustrated??? like i know sexual frustration is a thing but sometimes i get super intense cravings for soft kisses or make out sessions or cuddling naps or things like that and it’s way more frustrating to me than sexual cravings :((
Sparks = you're instantly attracted
Chemistry = you have a vibe together
Connection = you bond on a physical,
emotional and/or intellectual level
Compatibility = you're aligned on values
and complement each other
Girl to girl:
•Coconut water for hydration.
•Iced green tea instead of sugary drinks.
•Ginger shots when you feel off.
•Magnesium glycinate + Vitamin D + K.
•Omega-3s for skin + brain.
•Collagen peptides daily.
• good probiotic for your gut.
•Choline for focus and mood.
FLIIIIRT. FOR FUUUUCK SAKES. DANCE WITH LIFE. LET THE UNIVERSE SEDUCE YOU WITH WONDER AND CURIOSITY. PLEAAASE. YOU’LL NEVER BE THIS AGAIN. YOU’RE A ONE TIME THING. ENJOY IT.