SEMUA BERAWAL DARI POLA ASUH
- Anak gampang marah > terlalu sering dibentak
- Anak cuek ke orang tua > sering dihakimi daripada dipahami
- Anak suka membangkang > terlalu banyak larangan dan sedikit pelukan
- Anak suka berbohong > sering dimarahi tanpa dengar penjelasannya dulu
- Anak tidak percaya diri > terlalu banyak kritik dan sedikit apresiasi
Kabar gembira u/ kita semua (warga S'pore)
Mulai hari ini, rute Circle Line MRT udah terhubung bulat sempurna!
Artinya, kita bisa keliling tanpa perlu pindah-pindah rute, mulai dari:
-Paya Lebar 'Little Indo'
-National Stadium buat ngonser
-Bayfront buat ke MBS
-Harbourfront buat ke Sentosa
-jogging2 di Botanic Gardens
NO NEED TO TRANSFER 😭🥲
@txtdarinonktpYK Benar kata Mufti Mesir, Muhammad Abduh:
"Aku pergi ke Barat, aku melihat Islam tapi tidak melihat orang Islam.
Aku kembali ke Timur, aku melihat orang Islam, tapi tidak melihat Islam."
@sloppypoppy Makannya saran gue biasa aja, sewajarnya aja, gausah terlalu berlebihan, jd misal ada hal hal yg diluar ekspektasi gabakal kecewa/sakit. Apalagi menyangkut cowo, kalo dia gamau & ga ngusahain yaudah. Berarti nanti bakalan dapet yg lebih mantep. Sesimple itu pikiran gue sekarang😂
Banyak dari pertumbuhan kelas menengah itu memang gak sustainable karena dari gig economy boom dan harga beberapa komoditas lagi bagus. 2 itu ilang, ya merosot
apalagi real growth wage bisa dibilang terhenti di 2018, employer yg bisa hormatin UMR makin berkurang tiap tahunnya
This chart should terrify policymakers. Indonesia’s middle class did not merely slow down. It went into reverse.
After two decades of expansion, the middle-class population peaked at 61.5 million people in 2018, representing 23% of the population. By 2026, that figure had fallen to just 46.6 million people, or 16.6%. That is not a cyclical slowdown. That is structural deterioration.
For years, policymakers celebrated GDP growth, infrastructure projects, commodity booms, and headline investment numbers. But the ultimate scorecard of an economy is whether ordinary people become wealthier over time. This chart suggests millions of Indonesians are moving in the opposite direction.
The middle class is the economic engine of every successful country. They buy homes, cars, insurance, consumer goods, education, travel, financial products, and healthcare. They generate tax revenue. They create small businesses. They drive domestic demand. When the middle class shrinks, the economy loses its most important customer.
The uncomfortable question is simple: where did the gains go? If GDP is growing, if conglomerates continue expanding, if commodity exports remain large, then why are fewer Indonesians qualifying as middle class than eight years ago?
More importantly, if you are born poor in Indonesia today, what ladder exactly are you supposed to climb?
If you are exceptionally good looking, perhaps you can monetize attention through social media. If you are academically gifted, perhaps you can break into an ultra-competitive institution like MBB, survive years of brutal expectations, and eventually use that platform to do something bigger. If you are entrepreneurial, maybe you build a business against overwhelming odds. If you are lucky, perhaps you benefit from family connections, inheritance, or access to opportunities unavailable to most people.
But an economy cannot rely on exceptionalism. A healthy economy creates millions of pathways upward, not a handful of lottery tickets.
The situation becomes even more concerning when you consider that well-paying white-collar jobs are becoming increasingly scarce. Many multinational companies that once established regional operations, technology centers, shared-service hubs, and professional offices in Indonesia have either downsized, relocated, or shifted future expansion elsewhere.
Those jobs were not valuable merely because of the salaries they paid. They were valuable because they transferred knowledge, management expertise, technical skills, global best practices, and professional networks into the local workforce. Over time, they helped develop intellectual capital that could later be recycled into entrepreneurship, leadership positions, startups, and domestic businesses.
When those opportunities disappear, the loss is not limited to employment. The country also loses a training ground for future managers, engineers, consultants, analysts, and business leaders. Human capital compounds just like financial capital. Once that pipeline weakens, rebuilding it can take years or even decades.
The bigger risk is that social mobility slows. When people stop believing hard work leads to a better life, trust in institutions weakens. Aspirations decline. Consumption slows. Talent leaves. The country’s most productive people increasingly look elsewhere for opportunity.
This is why Indonesia’s biggest economic challenge is no longer growth. It is upward mobility. A country cannot thrive without a growing middle class, a steady pipeline of high-quality jobs, and a clear path for ordinary people to join it. And right now, all three appear to be moving in the wrong direction.
Satu do’aku di bulan Dzulhijjah ini:
Jika berjodoh dengan manusia, semoga dipertemukan dengan jodoh yang baik-baik dan jika berjodoh dengan ajal, semoga mendapat pengakhiran yang baik. Aamiin 🤲