Playing matchmaker with friends / acquaintances and vouching for them can be risky, because honestly, it doesnโt matter how well you know someone as a friendโฆ Who they are within the context of a romantic relationship will never be fully known to you.
Again, gentle reminder and a prime example that black and brown women should not be using the BMI system. It does not accurately apply to us. This is not overweight nor obese for us.
I think one of the healthiest things Iโve ever learned is that you should allow others to reintroduce themselves to you, even your closest friends. Give people space to become who they are without assuming you know who they are just bc youโve been friends/family for years
Talk to God about everything.
On a consistent basis.
He will reveal to you the truth about everything & how to handle any situation with wisdom. You won't be stressed, you'll never be pressed, & you'll always be confident in your direction. The very best help comes from the Lord.
As a woman with multiple degrees, it is weird how many men view me as a conquest to humble and โteachโ something. Iโve never admitted to knowing everything, but itโs something very eerie about men trying to make me feel small or โnot smart.โ
i randomly think about how in middle school i didnโt talk at ALL! I did not say one word.. one day, a group of kids gathered around me and were tryna push me to say โhiโ i finally whispered โhiโ and tell me why they all screamed and cheered LMFAO