so I actually lied deep down I do infact crave male validation ๐๐๐ I also crave female validation, academic validation and parental validation bc im an insecure bitch ๐๐๐
if you went to school in an undeveloped or majorly black area/city you'd know there's so much more nuance to this. they quite literally prey on teenage boys to get them to enlist to where they feel like it's their only option outside of jail or college