People will assume you’ve never been through anything because you do not have a victim personality and your trauma is not your entire personality. We grow from tribulations over here, not pity ourselves.
Nobody talks about the guy who shows up during your healing stage. The one who’s calm, patient, & genuinely kind. He makes you feel safe in ways you didn’t even realise you needed. He’s not love bombing or playing games…he’s consistent, steady, and truly sees you.