we really cannot blame why people don’t forgive someone‚ that’s actually reasonable. you cannot just question them and ask “ang tagal na non bakit hindi mo pa siya napapatawad?” you don’t even know how deep the cut that person cause them.
they always say that silent treatment is toxic. but no one talks about the reason behind everyone‘s silence. all the misunderstanding, invalidation and blaming that made us stop explaining our side.