Being a girl is wanting to save money but also wanting your hair done, nails done, gym membership, skincare, cute outfits, and a little treat every day 😭
You cant grow beyond the level of your country's infrastructure.
People forget that Amazon and Netflix were using the United States Postal Service heavily in their early days.
Fix Roads, Power, Rail, Airlines, and watch millionaires emerge naturally.
Fisayo buying 11 pairs of shoes for her wedding is excessive for most people, but context matters. She owns Kai Collective, she’s in fashion, her whole brand is built on aesthetics, visibility, and curated presentation. For someone in that industry, multiple shoes aren’t just wedding prep, they’re content, branding, and inventory.
The problem is the comparison culture. People will see her choices and start measuring their own lives against it. But she’s not operating from a normal financial or professional reality. She’s spending from a fashion business budget, not a regular salary. It’s like comparing your grocery money to someone’s marketing budget the numbers will never align.
Two truths can sit together:
Excessive spending is normal in fashion because image is part of the job.
Comparison culture makes ordinary people feel inadequate over things that aren’t even in their lane.
People forget that visibility isn’t the same as affordability. What you see online is often business expense dressed as lifestyle.
The book of Philippians is known as the happiest book of the Bible, yet it was written by Paul while he was in prison. A powerful reminder that our joy is not dependent on our circumstances but rooted in Christ alone 💙
Some people in your life have never seen you at your full capacity. They met you in a hard season, a transitional moment, a version of you still being built. Do not let their limited experience of you become your ceiling. You are more than the chapter they witnessed.
i’m so thankful that
in this big, big world
i found my person
and that i’m his entire world.❤️
Stars Align video is out Monday
we cannot wait for you to see our baby!
we love you so much. #coml