stop letting people manipulate you into believing all you wanna do is argue when you’re speaking on what they did to you or how they made you feel .. that’s a narcissistic babe & you will NEVER win in their world. get as far away as you can!
People move on after mistreating you. They're not sitting up in a room like Brandy thinking about you. Most of the time they move on and live perfectly fine after doing you dirty. So release yourself from the shackles of waiting for someone to regret how they mistreated you.
Trauma dumping and telling you sob stories in the very early stages. They want to play on your empathy early on in the connection so when the abusive behavior inevitably starts you can make excuses for them. Basically conditioning you to be their future emotional punching bag.
You were sucking the life out of her until she became a shell of herself. Not being around you gave her so much more mental clarity and peace in order to do more self care. Hope that helps