Soulmates always end up together no matter how much love is lost, no matter how distant you become. You lose each other to find each other again. That’s what it’s like when someone is meant for you. If you leave, or they leave, you will return to each other forever… If it’s destined.
Do not pursue men. If he likes you, he will do everything he can to make it known to you. Nonchalant, avoidant men aren’t relationship material. Leave them where they are.