It's so selfish to enter someone's life, see that they're a loving, cheerful, and good person, and decide to ruin their peace because you haven't dealt with your own issues. Leave people alone if you have no intention of showing up with sincerity.
I'm actually a natural moaner. I don't know why people assume moaning only happens during sex. Moaning is a great way of relieving all kinds of feelings. I moan when I'm tired, hungry, when I just wake up, when I'm stretching, when I'm crying, and even when I'm laughing.