Uncommon advice: If you don't know what to pursue in life right now. Pursue yourself. Pursue becoming the healthiest, happiest, most healed, most present, most confident version of yourself. Then the right path will reveal itself.
gue suka banget kalimat ini:
“Orang yang gak terbiasa komunikasi sehat, tiap masukan kerasa kayak sindiran.
Orang yang kurang tanggung jawab, tiap kritik kerasa kayak disudutkan.”
Ego itu harus dikontrol, bukan diturutin.
Karena kalau ego yang selalu pegang kendali, semua hal bakal diputer jadi soal harga diri.
Dikit-dikit ngerasa diserang, dikit-dikit pengen ngebela diri, padahal belum tentu orang lain punya niat seburuk itu.
Ego bikin kita susah denger, susah nerima, dan akhirnya susah berkembang.
Padahal gak semua masukan itu jatuhin kadang itu cara orang lain biar kita bisa jadi versi yang lebih baik.
Kalau ego terus diturutin, yang ada kita bakal stuck di situ-situ aja.
Gak belajar, gak berubah, cuma makin pinter ngehindar dan nyalahin keadaan.
Notice how nearly no Indonesians ever acused Indonesian Hindus / Balinese people of worshipping demons when the ogoh ogoh went viral on OUR side of the internet because we knew WHAT they were and what they were made for and were just proud of our culture? But then #they found it
lagi delay nunggu pesawat, samping gw bapak ngobrol sama istrinya
"bapak sebel ga kalo delay?"
"yang betah ya.."
"ngapain sebel"
"kan bisa sambil ngobrol sama kamu.."
anjay gurinjay terkanjay kanjay!!
bahagia banget gw dengernya
gw iri iri iri..
Can someone please explain to me how someone gets 8 hours of sleep, 10,000 steps a day, goes to work, maintains good hygiene, cleans their house, exercises, takes care of their animals, and has time for hobbies and socializing? Cause I feel like this is also propaganda.
I don’t want to be rich so I can buy a Rolex or a Chanel bag. I want to be rich so I can take my parents on holiday. So I can go to the gym randomly at 2 pm on a Wednesday. So I can cook every meal at home with fresh ingredients. So I can walk through nature in a place where I feel safe. So I can treat a friend to coffee without worrying if it tips me over budget. That’s the rich life I want to cultivate, not the one that was sold to me.