The point of transitioning is comfort and joy and to be our true selves.
Demanding that every trans person center their transition around “passing” is antithetical to that.
i think a bunch of the people saying "God i wish that's how it worked" fail to see that transition inherently involves taking back agency in your life after decades of giving it to others.
Je ne sais pas très bien bien comment on appelle un pays qui augmente ses crédits militaires et réinstalle un service national tout en supprimant des postes d’enseignants mais dans l’histoire ça a toujours mal fini