Dear Ogogo, ❤️
As a Nigerian and someone who works in oncology, hearing the news about your cancer diagnosis really touched me.
I have watched you on screen for years, and like so many Nigerians, I have grown to love the characters you've brought to life.
So today, I want to use this moment to educate,not to give medical advice to your family, because I don't know the details of your diagnosis, but to help others understand what stage 4 cancer actually means.
Stage 4 does NOT mean someone is going to die tomorrow.
Stage 4 generally means that the cancer has spread from its original or primary site to another part of the body.
Unfortunately, metastatic/stage 4 cancer is generally not considered curable. But that does NOT mean it cannot be treated.
Depending on the type of cancer and its biology, treatment may include:
• Chemotherapy
• Immunotherapy
• Targeted therapy
• Hormone therapy
• Radiation
• Or a combination of treatments
The goal may be to control the cancer, slow its progression, manage symptoms, and help the patient live as well and as long as possible.
So when I hear that the family has been told that chemotherapy cannot proceed, my questions would be:
1️⃣ Where is the primary cancer?
Knowing that is incredibly important because treatment depends on the type and origin of the cancer.
2️⃣ Why has the medical team decided not to proceed with chemotherapy?
Is it because of his overall health or frailty?
Is his bloodwork or organ function preventing treatment?
Is chemotherapy unlikely to benefit him?
Or are there treatment limitations based on what is available in Nigeria?
These are VERY different situations.
If the medical team has determined that his body cannot safely tolerate treatment, then treatment may shift from trying to control the cancer to palliative/supportive care, focusing on comfort, symptom management, dignity, and quality time with family.
And please, PLEASE be careful.
When a loved one receives a cancer diagnosis, desperation can make families vulnerable to people selling "miracle cures."
No herb, tea, supplement, or secret concoction has been proven to cure stage 4 cancer.
Don't allow anyone to exploit your fear and hope.
If there is uncertainty about the treatment plan, seeking a second opinion from a qualified medical oncologist is reasonable. A second opinion doesn't mean you don't trust the first doctor. It means you want to understand all available options.
Ogogo, I am rooting for you. ❤️
I pray for strength for you and your family, wisdom for your medical team, access to the best possible care, and comfort throughout this journey.
And to everyone reading this: Cancer is not one disease. Stage 4 is not a treatment plan. The details matter.
Let's lead with compassion, seek accurate information, and never give false hope but let's also never assume that a stage 4 diagnosis means there is nothing left to do.
With love and hope,
Dr. Mutiat ❤️
🚨🎙️Ian Wright on Matvey Safonov's towel for the TAB session during the penalty shootout in the champions league final against Arsenal:
“I’m sorry, but this has to be looked at properly. What Matvey Safonov did with that towel is straight-up cheating. Full stop.
“if we’re being consistent, football cannot pick and choose when information gathering is acceptable. We saw clubs investigated over scouting and intelligence-gathering scandals before. So explain to me the difference here.
You’ve got a PSG goalkeeper sitting there with a full tactical cheat sheet tucked into his towel, player names, numbers, flags, penalty tendencies, instructions like ‘FRAPPE FORT’, ‘SLOW SKIPPING’, ‘TAB 90’, the lot. He’s got Gyökeres, Kai Havertz, the works mapped out like it’s an open-book exam. This isn’t preparation, this is espionage in plain sight during a European tie against Arsenal.
“We’re not talking about instinct, preparation, or reading body language. We’re talking about a physical reference sheet being available during the shootout.
“If Southampton can face scrutiny over ‘spygate’ accusations, then UEFA should at least examine this as well. Either gathering opponent information is part of modern football or it isn’t. The rules cannot change depending on who wins the trophy.
“People will say, ‘Every club does penalty research.’ Fine. Do the research. But where is the line? Can you carry databases onto the pitch? Can coaches feed information every kick? Can players walk around with scouting reports in their socks?
“The problem isn’t PSG. The problem is consistency. Arsenal lose a Champions League final and suddenly everyone says it’s smart preparation. If Arsenal had won with a goalkeeper carrying a detailed PSG penalty guide, I guarantee half of Europe would be demanding an investigation.
“UEFA doesn’t even need to punish anyone. Just tell us clearly what is and isn’t allowed. Because if this is completely legal, then every goalkeeper in Europe will be turning up to penalty shootouts with a cheat sheet the size of a textbook next season.”