yes. and there’s also a correlation between survival mode and not wanting to dress well, adorn yourself, do self care, do your hair, nourish yourself. you just don’t have energy to care about beauty and sensuality because your nervous system is busy keeping you safe.
The perception that women’s breasts are “offensive” or overly sexualized, while men’s are not is overwhelmingly a cultural construct, not a universal biological absolute, and is heavily shaped by Christian and Abrahamic modesty norms.
the gay man u call dramatic has survived entire civilizations of cruelty. the straight man u call strong gets nervous washing his own ass after taking a shit