They’re scared of prenup.
They’re scared of DNA test.
They’re scared of ending up with a broke man.
They’re scared of accountability
The only thing they are not scared of is being a liabilities to men
Lmao 😂
If I tried to give my fiancée (now wife) money when we were dating, she would ask me what it’s for & why you are giving her money. She would reject it
I could remember the one and only time she asked me for money, 11k to be precise, 3 years into our relationship. It was cos she was in a very tight corner — she was going for her clinicals driving her dad’s car when she had a minor accident and needed it fixed before she returns home.
If you see how excited I was when she asked me for the money ehn. 😂🤣
But now that we are married, if I give her money, she go just dey shine teeth 😂🤣
She believes that if you are neither an orphan nor crippled, then you shouldn’t be collecting money from a man who isn’t your husband. That’s how they were brought up & that’s how I’m bringing up my girls.
Now you see why I really get pissed on this app when I see how men are spending on women they aren’t married to and more disgusting is women feeling entitled to a man’s money.
Your parents simply failed in giving your proper training, that’s all.
And if you choose to send nudes:
- crop out your face
- avoid mirrors and identifiable backgrounds. Use a plain wall or door instead.
- avoid showing tattoos, birthmarks, scars or other identifying marks
- turn off location data if possible
- use the view-once or disappearing message feature!
A man ending a relationship just because he’s broke is also valid. He might have seen that you’re just a liability building nothing with him, waiting for him to be the one to miraculously take you out of poverty, eating the little he has and making him even more broke. Now, he needs to focus on his grind.
You really can’t fault him.