I’ve seen ladies who will talk about everything with you both the explicit and the good stuff, on chats and calls, but when you ask them for a date, that’s where they draw the line.
One of the joys of being an ADULT and becoming independent is that you stop asking questions like "how did Jesus feed the five thousand with five loaves of bread and two pieces of fish"
You slowly start to understand it yourself in your way and your own experience...