The Salary Negotiation That Taught Me Everything In 2025
Candidate: "I need 100,000 per month."
HR : Our budget is 60,000 per month.
Boss: "Pass. Too expensive."
HR almost moved on. Almost.
But HR asked one question: "What would make 60,000 not work for you?"
Candidate : "Honestly? Nothing. I have loans, rent just went up, and I'm tired of being underpaid because I'm 'still learning.' I know my worth now."
HR went back to his boss.
Showed them the cost of leaving the role open another 3 months. The lost productivity. The team burnout. The recruiter fees if we went external.
It was over 50,000.
The boss accepted.
Here's the part that still gives the HR chills: Six months later, she told HR she had another offer for 130,000 per month but turned it down because they were the only company that fought FOR her, not AGAINST her.
Candidates remember who believed in them. They remember who negotiated IN GOOD FAITH versus who played games.
Stop treating salary negotiations like a battle to win. Start treating them like the first test of your company culture.
Because if you can't advocate for someone BEFORE they join, why would they believe you'll advocate for them AFTER?
Moment a Lady In The Congregation Stood Up And Disagreed With Pastor David Uche After He Said Women Should Consider Their Husbands More Important Than Their Children:
It’s unbelievable that people came to my DM to attack me for speaking out against the state pardon for 70 bandits in Katsina State.
We are actually sharing the same social media space with terrorists’ sympathisers.
Those terror-monsters deserve nothing but a MopDemAll act.
“My Fellow Northerners Are Impeccably Stupid. Tell Me Why Are You Criticizing BUA CEO For Saying He Will Give Money To The Super Eagles? You Say He Should Have Used It To Do Things In The North. Is It Your Money? When You Had The Chance To Vote For People To Work For You, Who Did You Elect? The Person Who Gave You 2 Spaghetti And N10,000 For Your Votes. Only For You To Starve For The Rest Of His Tenure.” ~ Northerner Faruk.
If you know someone who gets angry easily but loves God, share Pastor Dolapo Lawal’s message with them.
There’s something special about his teachings - if they listen to him regularly, they’ll become calm over time.
As a bonus, they’ll also gain a deeper understanding of God.
Today we celebrate 38 years of covenant, consistency, love, and kingdom impact.
38 years of walking together in purpose.
38 years of standing together in faith.
38 years of building not just a home, but a legacy of ministry, service, and spiritual leadership.
This is a testimony that love can be deep, faith can be strong, and commitment can endure — when God is at the center. Through seasons, through challenges, through victories, you have remained anchored in Christ and united in purpose.
This is a living proof that marriage is not just a union of hearts, but a partnership for destiny. A covering for generations. A platform for God’s glory.
HAPPY 38th WEDDING ANNIVERSARY
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I once asked a high-performer why they stayed with their company for 10 years.
I expected them to say "the salary" or "the bonuses options."
Instead, they said:
"A few years ago, I had a family emergency. My manager didn't ask for a doctor's note. They didn't check my performance. They just said: 'Take care of your family, we’ve got your back.'"
Retention isn't a "perk." It's a feeling.
If you want to keep your best people in 2026, stop looking at them as "resources" and start looking at them as humans.
Perks like free snacks and fancy offices are great, but psychological safety is what keeps the lights on.
The Lion of Iran has awakened.
Iranians are rejecting Islam, the Islamic Republic, and Sharia Law en masse.
I've never been more proud to be Iranian.
❤️
Having watched this video, I implore the Federal Government and the National Assembly to increase the salaries and allowances of the Armed Forces. We owe a debt of gratitude and robust welfare to the Nigerian Army Troops for their sacrifices.
There’s a married woman in my compound who does this thing; anytime her husband comes home late or they quarrel, she changes the padlock and refuses to open the door for him.
Yesterday, the man stood outside for over two hours. All of us came out, begging her to open the door. She refused. Eventually, another neighbour had to accommodate him for the night.
This morning, the man went out and came back with a truck. He packed all his belongings and left.
That was when the woman started shouting and begging, calling all of us to come and help her plead with him not to go. Nobody answered her.
Me: She’ll learn the hard way. Who locks a man out of his own house? Spoilt brat.
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