Every man wants a woman with a big heart but what they don’t understand is that a woman with a big heart comes with big emotions. She’s passionate. She gets really sad and mad but she will love you like no other. You can’t have someone with a big heart and expect low emotions.
Having friends of the opposite gender who give you genuine advice from a different perspective is so useful, people who say “male/female friends whilst you’re dating, no way” are mad childish😭
At your big age you think a man and woman can’t just be in a platonic friendship? 🤦🏽♀️
Women need supportive and nurturing spaces. We need to be poured into, we need to be held, we need gentleness. It’s a need, yes. Not a need that comes from a place of lack, but it’s a need, a necessity, a desire, a yearning, a birthright
I think it’s so important for your friends children to know you/love you. My friends kids love me & I love them so much too. They’re basically my kids as well. 🤍
I used to be quick with responses but NOW ….. boi everyone needs to allow me 24-48 hours .
WhatsApp is overwhelming and you can be surprised how many people you talk to via text daily.
Also, sometimes I’m not in the correct headspace to reply to certain messages.
Having REAL friends is important. And I’m not talking about friends that call you pretty and like your pictures, I’m talking about the friends that’s gone be there for the uncomfortable, rough situations.
I do not handle hurt well at all and I do not like who I become when I am hurting. That’s why I really don’t like being mistreated or played with. If you aren’t genuine, don’t even bother me. Just move around.
idk, i just prefer going through my shit alone. it's not that i don't trust people or i have trouble communicating, it's just that i know myself, i'm very aware and i know how i'm built. i know how to pull myself through, i know what i need. maybe it's toxic, but i really got me.