You people need to understand that before your lover became your lover they were first a child, sibling, friend etc and sometimes, other people have to come before you, not because they donโt love you but because those people are also a priority
It is not a competition
@me_wela some parents really just want the Catholic identity to last long. Cuz once you marry out. It's harder to remain Catholic. Once remembered a secondary school teacher talking about how that's more important than tribe to her. Like you could be Igbo, Hausa or Yoruba. Just be cath.
@patryusha not impossible. in fact. Catholicism doesn't fully support capitalism either. Especially the disdain of thepoor some capitalist societies like America have. Heard of distributism?
the problem is that we think sin is just moral error, and so we think living a good life will earn us God's acceptance.
if you think and really believe in your heart conclusively that being moral is how to earn eternity, you are exactly where the devil wants you to be.
I love my mother, but omo, being the child of an angry woman is such an insane experience.
I can't count how many times she dumped hot soup straight from the gas because of one thing or the other.
Now, she wants us to be besties. As how nau ๐ญ