“Get straight to doing what nature requires of you, and speak as you see most just and fitting, with kindness, modesty, and sincerity.” — Marcus Aurelius, Meditations.
Fintwit archive, 2020.
I get pushback on this, but in my experience, an itch will be scratched. Hardships will be endured, sacrifices will be made. A must-do chooses us. Chasing that ball isn't a choice; it's just done. And what's worse, it's just dumb luck that it's even there.