@kissesbykatie Bro I just told this white girl “ you got any exciting plans besides getting ice cream with me?” And it’s literally my first message to her 😂
Marcus Aurelius was right when he said the crowd will forget you no matter what you do. So the only real question is whether you spent your years chasing their approval or actually living for yourself.
HOW TO BECOME A MAGNETIC PERSON:
1. Fix your body before anything else. Period. No excuses.
2. Dress clean, fitted, and with intention. Look like you meant to show up.
3. Groom yourself like it truly matters. Because it DOES.
4. Don’t be available all the time. Your time is valuable, act like it.
5. Delay replies – create healthy distance. You’re busy building, not waiting.
6. Learn to say no calmly. No is a complete sentence. Own it.
7. Stop oversharing personal details. Not everybody deserves access to you.
8. Speak less. Choose your words carefully. When you talk, make it count.
9. Stay composed in public – always. You’re a professional. Act like one.
10. Smile confidently, not desperately. There’s a difference and people FEEL it.
11. Build a life that keeps you busy. Idle people chase others. Busy people get chased.
12. Surround yourself with smart, wise people. Your circle determines your ceiling.