@Kat398L@lyn49556 The use of jargon like "incel" just generalizes complex human behavior. Instead of getting to know someone, people "filter" them through an internet-defined lenses, this defensiveness kills the vulnerability required for traditional romanticism.
@Kat398L@lyn49556 That's the point, how do you know if someone is good or bad without sincerity?
Romanticism thrives on openness and mystery, those bad presumptions just kill romanticism, you don't agree?