Edith Rizziky

Simplicity And Proud Agbafian.(WIFE AND PROUD MOTHER OF TWIN BOYS)

[Edith Rizziky @edith_rizziky]

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[Edith Rizziky @edith_rizziky]

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[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

It's very simple.

Once a lady is dating you for survival, she is going to cheat on you or cause you so much mental stress.

And this is more prevalent among under 25 ladies.

Because they're quite young, impressionable, broke, indecisive and adventurous.

As a grown man that wants to be serious with his relationship life, you need to be more logical and realistic with your choice bracket.

Employers do not just employ people because they're jobless.

They employ because they are looking for candidates who fit into the job role or description.

As a single man in his late 20s and in his 30s, see yourself as an employer.

And because you know that you're looking for a wife who would be the mother of your children, you must make sure that the woman fits into the role.

You can't be dating an under 25 with little or no experience or qualifications, and expect that you won't be burned or suffer loses.

The risk is far lesser with the above 25s.

Because most of them are now better focused, made their mistakes and learned from them.

They're now looking at being a wife and a mother.

1. Most are working and are graduates.

2. They're facing family and society pressure to bring a husband home.

3. Every failed relationship that they experience after 25, inches them closer to the end of their prime. So they want it to work.

4. They understand the value of money better.

5. They mostly feed themselves and hardly depend on their parents or siblings.

6. They know what to do most of the time, without being told or pushed to do them.

7. They're within the same generation bracket as you are.

These points are the logical and realistic things that you must consider before you go into a serious relationship.

Stop looking for tight totos.

All totos are elastic in nature, and even at 50, totos would still be tight and enjoyable.

And it doesn't have meter.

It's only a woman that can tell you how many penis has visited her toto.

You cannot guess by using her age.

What is visible, measurable and verifiable by you is her character, her upbringing and who her mother is.

I am telling you this as someone who knows a lot of things.

You may not like what I am saying, but this is exactly what I would tell my son when he comes of age.

Stop acting tasty and foolish around these young girls.

They're not on your level.

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[Edith Rizziky @edith_rizziky]

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[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

You cannot tell or teach adults not to cheat.

What they decide to do with their genitals is none of your business.

You can only teach or tell them the consequences of it, which they already know.

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[The Odin @TheOdin_II]

As a single mother:

1. Don’t see yourself as less. You still have full value.

2. Don’t hide your child to keep a man.

3. Don’t beg a man to love you. Love should be given freely.

4. Don’t carry a man’s role. Let him lead his part.

5. Don’t be the provider for a man. He should stand on his own.

6. Don’t ignore red flags. What you see early will hurt you later.

7. Don’t rush into sex to keep him. It won’t secure love.

8. Don’t stay silent to keep peace. Speak your truth.

9. Don’t lower your standards. The right man will meet you there.

10.Don’t lose yourself in a man. Keep your life and purpose strong.

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[Edith Rizziky @edith_rizziky]

@talk2veee Ohhhhh some humans are just shameless,kai

[The Odin @TheOdin_II]

If someone, including @jon_d_doe, makes a post and you don’t agree with it, that’s your right. Say you don’t agree, and explain why you think the take is wrong. Simple.

I’ve disagreed with a few of his posts myself, and I said my piece. He saw it and respected it. That’s how normal people handle things.

What doesn’t make sense is saying you disagree, then switching straight to insults. That’s not debate, that’s noise. And if you come at someone like that, don’t be shocked when you get the same energy back. Me, I’d respond too.

At the end of the day, he’s human. He can be wrong sometimes. Nobody gets it right all the time. But one basic rule should still stand: don’t insult me. It’s not hard to disagree without being disrespectful.

If you really believe in your point, you don’t need abuse to back it up. Your words should be enough.

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[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

I would like to thank those of you who have stood solidly behind me throughout this period.

Some of you have received unwarranted insults just because of me.

I hope it's now clear to you, why I kept myself from public view.

No one throws stones at a fruitless tree.

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[Edith Rizziky @edith_rizziky]

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[Àgbà John Doe (back up) @jon_d_doee]

My utmost wish for all of you who have been here with me for this long is that I want those who strongly believe in marriage and its tenets to find each other and get married.

Please do not be shy or too prideful to ask me for help in this regard.

I have taught so much that I believe many of you are willing to try, and do it afraid.

Especially those of you who are above 25 years of age: men and women. If marriage is part of your goal or wish within the next year, please speak up if you have not found anyone yet.

If I know anyone to connect you with, I will gladly do it, and hope for the best for both of you.

As long as both of you are sincere at heart and believe in God and family, please give it your all when you get connected to someone.

AJD.

[Edith Rizziky @edith_rizziky]

@jon_d_doe 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌

[Edith Rizziky @edith_rizziky]

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[Àgbà John Doe (back up) @jon_d_doee]

But women don't listen to wise counsel ooo.

I have always warned women that their feelings is their greatest enemy.

And that you should not be looking for men to love, but look for men that are focused, show good signs of being a provider and men that you can respect and submit to in marriage.

Tell me...

How can a woman have kept her virginity at 29, only to lose it to a man that is not showing good signs of seriousness?

He is not financially okay to feed himself, he doesn't even have the basic things that a man needs before he decides to marry a wife and become a father, but he wants to get her pregnant & force and decieve her to get married to him in that condition?

26-30+ year old single women are not for men who are not ready for marriage.

They should go and date the under 25s if they still want to play and fucking carelessly.

Now, she's about to leave the relationship with regrets. And another man that may meet her in the future would think that she used her 20s to be fucking around.

Is that the case? No.

She lost her virginity to the wrong man, and it's lost forever.

But I am also happy that she doesn't want to allow the fact that she lost her virginity to him, to make her stay in the relationship, out of fear of having multiple body counts.

I have already said that marriage is ordained by God. But not every one would or should get married.

If a man is not ready, and you know that you need to settle down as a woman due to time not being on your side, please stop wasting your time in that relationship.

Marriage is serious business and for serious minds.

AJD.

[Edith Rizziky @edith_rizziky]

AMEN

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

The holidays are over.

As you go out today to face your legitimate hustle, may God guide you and may your day be productive and profitable.

Amen 🙏.

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

You all should prepare to read this book written by @TheOdin_II.

He gave me the privilege to read it before publishing it.

I wrote a forward for the book.

Please watch out for the launch.

Thank me later 🙏

[Edith Rizziky @edith_rizziky]

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[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

That's to show you how evil & dark some humans are.

A page that you did not build.

You have not contributed an ounce of what I have done for humanity through my coveted platform.

But you want to destroy it.

Because of your high affinity for envy.

God punish una mother.

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[Edith Rizziky @edith_rizziky]

@jon_d_doe Haaaaaaaaaaaaa🏃🏃🏃🏃Na boss who be? Humans Kai

[Edith Rizziky @edith_rizziky]

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[Àgbà John Doe (back up) @jon_d_doee]

Last night, I posted a DM from a married man who was assisted by this community in June of last year.

In his update, he said something:

"My wife is now more loving."

Yesterday morning, at the end of the thread I wrote, I had said something:

"When money is lacking, your marriage will never be the same, even if you are married to a good wife."

It was indeed a soul-lifting testimony coming from the man, and I bless God for using us as a vessel to restore his shield.

Provision is a man's shield, and his ego is his weapon.

When a man loses his shield, he loses the ability to enjoy his manly "privileges".

And so, he would resort to using his weapon (ego) to fight his inadequacies.

That is why he would lowkey resent his wife for doing what he knows he is supposed to be doing, but he doesn't have the money (shield) to do it.

Whether he's lazy or not, and even if he lost his shield through unfortunate circumstances. Some weeks ago, on the main page, I wrote a thread discussing how a couple (who are followers) got divorced.

Although I was disappointed and unhappy about the situation, I understood their circumstances.

The man was struggling to provide for his ex-wife and two kids, so she started a small business to feed the children.

Untop of that, the man was cheating carelessly and rubbing it on her face. He was also resenting his wife.

I know this because I had the privilege to get to know much about their marriage.

Each time she would come to my DM, I would plead with her not to leave her marriage. But her ex husband's ego wouldn't let him see how he was destroying their marriage, until it crashed.

I had once chatted with him to plead that he should be careful, but his ego would not let him. And so, he used it until her bride price was returned and all traditional rites were done.

When a man loses his shield, and his wife starts to act differently, it is not always because she is a bad wife. It's mostly because she is afraid of what might become of them should the situation not improve.

A wife is supposed to be worried about what to cook, not where the money to buy the food will come from.

A wife is supposed to be worried about how the children are doing in school and their academics. Not where the money to pay their fees would come from.

A wife should be worried about keeping their house clean and homely. Not where the money to pay the rent would come from.

If the wife is saddled with all these burden, and then saddled with how to make the money, she'll definitely Crack.

If you're not careful as a man, you'd think that you married a bad wife.

If you married a bad wife, why would she still be with you?

In most cases, your ego would be what would destroy the marriage.

And your lackadaisical attitude.

Stop wallowing in self-pity as a man.

Swallow your pride and ask for help, and roll up to sleeves to do whatever legitimate you can to be able to patch the Crack in your home.

Do not say that any job is too dirty or embarrassing for you to do. What is important is that you're moving forward and getting money to fulfill your responsibilities as much as possible.

And even if your wife is making millions, please keep giving her your thousands.

She would appreciate you, and return to the loving wife that you married.

AJD.

[Edith Rizziky @edith_rizziky]

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[Àgbà John Doe (back up) @jon_d_doee]

In June 2025, this married man was in my DM with his financial challenges.

I took pity on his situation and raised funds for him to fix his car.

Then I connected him to some persons as well.

Even Seyi (Ẹkùn) was helpful to him.

Seyi wanted to give me $100 but I asked him to give the man $200

Please read his update 👇

[Bolaji @zeebron24]

One thing I learned growing up is that not all prophets will gather congregations. Some are simply meant to spread wisdom and understanding and that’s exactly what you’re doing, agba.

They say prevention is better than cure. That’s a principle I’ve held onto over the years. One of my exes, who is now married with two kids, fell into this situation. If I weren’t a disciplined person, I would have been involved with her. She was willing to elope with me without considering the consequences. She was even ready to carry my child.

But every time she reached out, I advised her to focus on making her marriage work. I made it clear I would never be part of the path she was trying to take. Eventually, I cut her off.

I hope men set their Ego aside and focus on your teaching.

[Big Ice @dmGambo]

A MAN CALLED ÀGBÀ.

He is a man who has earned every bragging right in this space.

I have watched him repost people’s content, small accounts, unknown voices, people who had something real to say but no reach to say it with.

And something remarkable happens every time he does.

The comments flood in. The following comes. The account that was invisible yesterday suddenly has people paying attention.

He doesn’t do it to be celebrated for it. He does it because he recognises something worth amplifying and he amplifies it. That’s it.

That is a rare thing on X.

Most people with large followings use their reach exclusively for themselves. Every post, every repost, every engagement, in service of their own brand. Which is understandable. But it is not the only way to operate.

Agba has built something different. He has built weight. And he uses that weight to lift others.

When he reposts you, his audience doesn’t just scroll past. They engage. They follow. They carry your content further than you could have carried it alone.

That is influence used with intention.
I have seen it happen too many times to call it a coincidence.

Some of the voices you now follow on this app, you found them through him.
That is legacy work. Quiet, consistent, and deeply human.

Not many people do that.

A lot of you ungrateful lots think he didn’t “make” you who you are today because he never directly gave you a special shoutout. But when you check retrospectively, you’d agree with me in this post.

Thank you, Agba. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾​
I have seen and recognised my growth through you and I’m grateful.

God bless you and yours🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[Edith Rizziky @edith_rizziky]

I BELIEVE IN MIRACLES.THANK YOU LORD FOR THIS

[Edith Rizziky @edith_rizziky]

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[Àgbà John Doe (back up) @jon_d_doee]

From "post your picture under this, your husband may find you" to finally getting married.

This is what I am known for.

I touch lives.

I make people emotionally happy.

I do it for humanity.

They'll never post this on their page.

Because it doesn't suit their hate agenda.