Edwin_Edem

University of Cape Coast (UCC) || Thinker || The one whom the Father loves and gave His Son for my sake || Chelsea through & through 💙

[Edwin_Edem @edwinadev9]

@Ofuamk Title: Condor

Has only two seasons.

[Gbenga Samuel-Wemimo @GbengaWemimo]

If you want to increase your probability of success, always take an opportunity that would provide you with a new skill
Learn to do it right, learn to program, learn to write, learn to read, read new things, learn to public speak, learn how to introduce yourself to people, learn how to social network, learn how to go talk to your boss in the right manner

[Edwin_Edem @edwinadev9]

@CFC_OBED He played for Liverpool but he’s a blue.

[Edwin_Edem @edwinadev9]

@_owula Put none there.

[Edwin_Edem @edwinadev9]

@CFCPys Javier Pastore never gave us anything special on the pitch, yet here he is misleading Enzo Fernández. Chelsea took a massive gamble and even overpaid to bring Enzo to the club. If he truly wants to leave, then just go, and spare us all the unnecessary drama. Decorated agent.

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[Edwin_Edem @edwinadev9]

@Princessrolandr @Joy997FM See who’s talking about respect. If you truly respected Ghanaian men, you wouldn’t drag them into your mess. Keep feeding your emotions while dodging reality like the manic-depressive fool you are. Learn responsibility and accountability… it’ll do you good.

[Edwin_Edem @edwinadev9]

@Princessrolandr @Joy997FM I didn’t judge them. You wish my dad were yours… he would have raised you to be responsible and accountable. The lady who refused to give in to the Russian deserves protection and respect. She’s the strength and example of a responsible Ghanaian woman, and not your kind.

[Edwin_Edem @edwinadev9]

@Princessrolandr @Joy997FM This is proof of your foolishness. It’s their own body, and they’re free to use it however they want, but then you turn around and blame men for the consequences of your choices. You have a serious mental problem. Did your mother tell you who your father is?

[Edwin_Edem @edwinadev9]

@Princessrolandr @Joy997FM You're acting like a fool. Show your real picture so we can talk properly… you might be one of those ladies. No woman in my family would ever behave the way those women did. Learn to take accountability and responsibility for your actions. Stop dragging men into your nonsense.

[Revd Dr Olaleye Oluwafemi @pfemiolaleye]

Hmmm.

A woman who doesn’t regard marriage to her husband as priority isn’t really a wife .

A man who doesn’t make his marriage to his woman a priority isn’t really a husband .

It takes two to make marriage work .

[Gbenga Samuel-Wemimo @GbengaWemimo]

Love Is Not Subject To A List

I once had a list of what I expected the woman I would marry to have and be
-Working
-Independent in her thinking
-Born Again
-Parents are still married
- Tongue Talking
- A virgin
- Not more than twenty-eight years old
- Have her own car
- Parents must have raised her with an abundance consciousness
-Respectful
- Must have a good command of English
- Must desire to be married and be a mother
-Must be willing to marry a pastor or a minister of the gospel
- Must be ambitious and ready to conquer the world with me
-Values family

As of when I had this list
-I hadn't secured a job
-I was independent in my thinking
-I was born again
-My parents were divorced
-I was not a virgin
-I was thirty
-I didn't own a car
- I was not raised in abundance
-I was respectful
-I had a good command of English
-I desired to be a husband and a Father
-I was a minister
-I was ambitious and ready to conquer the world
-I value family

And....

I met a lady who met all my criteria
I proposed to her, and she said yes
We got married, and from day one of the marriage, I was in hell

This lady wanted a replica of the marriage between her father and her mother
In that story, her mother was the head of the family
I didn't see that coming at all

She insisted on providing, and insisted I must not be gainfully employed
She said her mother was only able to keep her father in check and in the marriage when her father went broke

When her father was working and making money, he had several women he was sleeping with outside of the marriage and even had children with some of them.

He lost his job when he turned sixty, and he couldn't fund that lifestyle anymore
That was when her mother had peace of mind

As a first daughter who observed this development firsthand, she made up her mind that it was better for men not to have money in a marriage
Sh would often say, "When a man has money, he uses it to womanise."

How could I have known enough to write that on my list?

Every time I land a good job, this woman would sulk for days and weep until I left the job
She was against me being idle, so at first she encouraged me to do freelance work, and later I worked for her younger brother's start-up before doing some other odd jobs just so I wouldn't sit idle.

I bore it for years until forty started knocking and I realised i was not fulfilling my potential in life

I was rotting away in a marriage that was more like a prison
I called my wife and begged her
I said I would sign any undertaking she might provide, but I will not continue to live that way

I bore it for years until forty started knocking, and I realised I was not fulfilling my potential in lifefe
She was a shining star, and I was nothing
I was known as her husband and not in my own identity, according to my accomplishments

I told her I want to get a proper job, own properties, buy cars, pay bills, and have money in the bank.
She replied by saying, "If I ever did that, I should consider the marriage as over

The following week, I sat for an interview and landed a job, a good job
I got home and shared the news with her
The next day, she left the children at home and moved out

Her plan was to leave the children with me so that I would be unable to work and also do school runs
I called the office, and I was set up to work remotely
I took on the challenge of working remotely and caring for our three children

She came back twice and saw that I was coping very well and meeting all needs without putting a phone call through to her for support, either financially or with her presence

She said I had proven her point
As soon as I got a job and had money, I didn't need her anymore
She left the house for two months, and I survived
She said she wanted to be with a man who would not survive a day without her

That was the end of the marriage.
I had a list, and she met all the criteria
Love is much more than a list of characteristics you are looking for in a partner
Love is two people who choose to support and understand, and grow with each other, even through difficult times

PS: This was seno me by a brother
I decided to share
PS: This was sent by a brother

-GSW-

[Edwin_Edem @edwinadev9]

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[Edwin_Edem @edwinadev9]

Hello, 60!
Best wishes to the Honourable Attorney-General and Minister for Justice, Dr. Dominic Ayine, on this special milestone.

A very happy birthday to you! May this new chapter bring you good health, renewed strength, and lasting happiness.

[Justice Srem-Sai @JusticeSremSai]

Kindly help me wish my boss, the Honourable Attorney-General and Minister for Justice, Dr Dominic Ayine, a glorious 60th birthday. A man of exceptional intellect and courage. A true teacher. Boss, I grant you absolute permission to take the day off 😁. I salute 🫡. Cheers 🍻

[Edwin_Edem @edwinadev9]

@SIKAOFFICIAL1 Why can't Muslims simply coexist peacefully in any society or location they inhabit? Is there an underlying issue or problem with their community or beliefs? This pattern of conflict or unrest is increasingly unacceptable and concerning.

[Edwin_Edem @edwinadev9]

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[Chelsea FC @ChelseaFC]

Merry Christmas from everyone at Chelsea FC! 💙

[The Ghanaian Farmer @EnyonamManye]

Broooo this old man's efforts mustn't go unnoticed. Smallholder farmers also matter. 😳

[Chelsea FC @ChelseaFC]

A festive sled race! 😁