“Communication is key” but no one talks about how scary real communication is. It is not cute texts and long calls. It’s “here’s where you hurt me, here’s what I need, here’s what I’m afraid to say”. It’s swallowing pride, risking rejection, choosing honesty over comfort.
Stop sending long paragraphs & messages explaining how you feel, just don't say anything.
I've learned that it doesn't matter what you say, if they don't care they just don't. And nothing you say will change that. Keep your guard up. Don't waste your time & energy.
i will never explain my side again. you find that it was all my fault? then be it, i accept it. i'm done with explaining my side. i don't want to feel like i'm begging to be understood. never again.