She is blamed for having a meet-up because MEN are bad? Change the way you think! Blame men for their incompetency and lack of good character! Her fault was trusting the idea that PAKISTANI MEN can be human too!
Yes, all men! All men until men aren't ashamed of these happenings. Until men do not hold other men accountable. So, yes all men until a significant change is not visible! And yes my father too! He uses derogatory curse words as well! So yes, all men!
@asadjehangir5 @OutOnAbudget Read up about manipulation and toxicity and you’ll get my point. I'm not justifying living relationships. I'm pointing out your mistake. No woman deserves to be killed just because she was not following proper Islam. He's the one to be blamed solely! He KILLED her!
@asadjehangir5 @OutOnAbudget Also, she doesn't need to know his crimes for her to have a relationship with him, often in these relationships, people lie about most of their truth. Not just these but in scam marriages as well. The point is, he killed her; murdered her, and that is in no way justifiable.
Women here are traumatized and then people ask Aurat March shouldn't happen! No, it should happen. Pakistan needs females to know that there is a movement to support them. To encourage them to fight the wrong. If patriarchal people cannot handle that, it's their burden to carry.
@asadjehangir5 @OutOnAbudget Living relationship is haram no doubt, but you cannot justify murder at any cost! Also, if you had read up about the case you would know that the murderer had a history of rape and assault. Her fault was to trust the wrong men. Nothing else! You cannot justify murder.
- you blame the women instead of holding those men accountable? This is where men should start being ashamed of their gender. This is where Pakistani men fail the women of Pakistan. This is where we should establish the fact that men cannot see the mistake of their gender. 2/2
I see comments of men blaming her and saying ‘there are always men like them there, why did she go?’ you realize the misogyny there? Do you realize how despite knowing the kind of men that roam there- 1/2
I'm in awe of the world
and how they ignored the way
they had caused muteness
to women for centuries.
I'm in awe of the world
and how they ignored the way
men had choked their dreams to
the point where even death trembled to come.
I'm in awe of the world.
-eeman Asad
Can we stop using slang words that include mothers and sisters? Words like mc, bc, (not saying the full words because it makes me nauseated), maa bhen ek, Randi, etc. I'm sure everyone is well aware of their meaning. Can we stop using them even when an idiot breaks traffic rules?
It's not cool - never has been, never will be. Stop using them, please. Your words are a step towards making this world a better place. Use them wisely. Use them to be kind and not disgusting. Use that power of speaking to make this world a safe space for all.
I'm 17 (almost 18) and I'm terrified of the men Pakistan is home to. I know not all men, I'm well aware of that. But how many? How many men do I have to stay alert from? How many women more for men to realize that enough is enough?
When you call Pakistan the Islamic Republic, I feel as if Islam has been brought to shame. Islam does not teach assault or dominance or hate. The femicide in Pakistan does not represent Islam. Do not use Islam’s name with a country who again and again fails its women.
My stomach is in knots, I'm scared for the women of Pakistan. Men here care more about the image of our country than the women being sexually assaulted. Men here care more about their fragile egos than human life and the trauma they might have gone through.