Neurotic self reflection is a horrible impulse that makes everything feel extremely tense and makes it impossible to emotionally engange with anything because the process of mental interrogation takes precedence but it certainly never leads to any actually meaningful insights
Notice how bigots tend to reduce human qualities on groups they dont like because they think of people as subhuman.
This guy's whole argument is "trans men are just women" and then doesn't even try to make them look like "just women"