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@Universe_X97 women are all different and social media paints a pretty limited picture of what interacting with them is like

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@Universe_X97 unless youve actually been victimized by a woman who left lasting trauma on you, or as a man are smaller/weaker than a lot of women (2 things that are uncommon but not unheard of) then you have no reason to be afraid of women. dont give up, just keep going with caution instead

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@Universe_X97 no offense, but you just sound like youre assuming the worst of every woman as a convenient excuse to be a doomer & never try. believe it or not women do have desire and agency. & even if some of them wouldnt be romantically interested, a lot of them make good friends too

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@AreyouHilaryB now youve lost me, i never said anything about being scared. men being scared to approach women is not treating women like humans, its putting them on a pedestal and treating them like an entirely separate species. the goal is for everyone to be safe & comfortable with each other

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@alasky__ "men are increasingly passive, hesitant and unwilling to take initiative"
good. that means more men are becoming considerate of boundaries, they arent trying to sleep with every woman they see and are trying to form strong genuine connections w/ women. how is that a bad thing?

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@lotusbel either way, if i confess it makes ppl feel uncomfortable and betrayed, so i never do. i dont ever want to hurt anyone. the feelings dont go away i just use coping mechanisms to deal w/ them. i used to self harm to deal with this but thats no good, ive been clean for almost a year

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@lotusbel from a guy's perspective its actually really similar. when i develop feelings for a friend, i start questioning whether i befriended them cause i valued our friendship or cause i was attracted. i want to think its the former, but idk if being a man means im wired to be the latter

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@starvesofia im a bi dude, i agree with you. ladies have it worse but it does happen to us. straight woman i was seeing called me slurs behind my back to her friends after i came out to her. & for some reason every gay guy i get close to seems to think im gonna leave him for a woman

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@sweetselkiie im a guy but im bi as well & i have a similar problem. my options are find a man and lose my entire family, or simply be single. no women would want a man who likes both, & honestly subjecting a woman to having to date a man just feels immoral and wrong

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@justadyke_ i dont think you realize just how misogynistic this sounds. the fact that youre also a woman just makes it more disturbing

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@superstutzle its only sad when it happens to women. when men do this theyre nothing but cowardly, shameful dogs who lied to their wives for years & used them as shields

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@Purvang_95 yeah thats true

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@Purvang_95 well...yeah? they still pulled a girlfriend. that just goes to show you that theres a lot of homophobic women in the world too & it sucks

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@Purvang_95 @fiercepatricks no offense but this is like demonstrably not true. nearly every homophobic man i know has a girlfriend

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@chsakuraen i havent seen many but i will take your word for it. my best friend is chinese & i know they would not stand for this sort of thing

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@chsakuraen there are so many example of this kind of behavior from CN players & while i understand its a loud minority, i think if you dont agree with them then you should criticize that loud minority & hold them accountable, the same way you want the game company to be held accountable

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@chsakuraen @liapluto @princessjolyne @Sleep478550 @MissQinEsty that post has 1500 likes, it's not just one person.
theres also all of this

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@seaofcaffeine_ from singing queen to summer queen lol

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@yuuu20_ i just imagine him opening his mouth & making the metal pipe sound when he sees her