High functioning depression is so scary because no one knows that you're not ok. And even if you say something, people don't care because you don't present as someone who's falling off the deep end.
Men don't understand... being a "PROVIDER" isn't all about money. It's about providing the EMOTIONAL SECURITY that allows a woman to rest in her FEMININE ENERGY. Money is the icing, not the cake
Let me make something clear that I thought the average person would understand just based off common respect but alas
It’s disrespectful to disrupt an artist’s performance. Period. But especially by faking a medical emergency just to force a moment. That’s what happened. I stopped the show out of genuine concern, only to realize it was a ploy to get my attention and show me a gift.
I didn’t accept it because that’s not showing love, that’s hijacking the show. It disrespected me, the performance, and the fans who were there to be present with the music.
What made it worse is someone from that group then moved down into the pit, disrupted the experience for other fans, and tried again to force the moment. That’s when I said enough is enough.
And now I’m being told I was disrespectful because the gift “took a long time to make.”
But here’s what’s wild lol
I spent YEARS making this music. I spent TIME and INTENTION curating this show and this setlist.
YOU CANT DEMAND RESPECT FOR YOUR TIME WHILE ACTIVELY DISRESPECTING MINE.
If you truly support an artist, you support the art while it’s happening. You don’t interrupt it to center yourself. That’s not support, that’s entitlement.
If someone really wanted to give me something out of love, they’d find a way to do it without disrupting what I’m there to do.
Thanks