People lack accountability, then say, “You could've talked to me” No, I couldn't. You don't listen, You deflect. You twist everything into an attack and then play victim. Conversations with you aren't healing, they're exhausting. And honestly, I don't owe my peace to someone who only shows up to win an argument, not to understand.
I heard someone say, “no contact for you is just a regular day for them” and I never looked back. Stop obsessing over people who aren’t losing any sleep over you.
nobody talks about how exhausting it is to live in that space between “things will get better” and “i can’t handle this anymore.” it’s like your emotions are constantly swinging. leaving you both hopeful and defeated in the same day