everyone every other day of the month:
everyone when i'm braiding my hair: do you want free tickets to beyoncé and meet jesus christ, we can only do this today btw
just remembered when a guy i met at the club randomly turned evil and had me cornered on the dance floor telling me that i had to be subservient to keep a man and keep his dick hard
i'm not saying that someone should creep on their friend btw (which isn't what the kid is doing) but i do think that having involuntary bodily reactions to a normal part of growing up shouldn't be met with shame, that's literally what fundamental christianity teaches
I feel like we have to stop pathologizing and intellectualizing desire and our bodily instincts because our reality and desires are messy and don't follow the strict codes that we put on ourselves and others, we really have rebranded puritanism into something new
Idk why people are treating this like it's some sign that zoomers are fucked because they can't be attracted to girls. He's upset because he feels like he's objectifying his friend.
The real problem is he's clearly been taught that women are either friends OR sexual objects.