the Gardener & the Rose

Life is Beautiful; not Perfect, but profoundly Beautiful🤎

[the Gardener & the Rose @effie_elle_]

The average ego can only stomach you outgrowing clothing items; but not their person.

Death is harsh, not cruel.

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[the Gardener & the Rose @effie_elle_]

I have NO desire to match energy. It’s NEVER my initial thought!

I have total respect for people’s process(es). Matching energy may very well require me to emote or emit at a frequency less than. With disassociation being a healthy option, why would I opt in to self-regression?

[the Gardener & the Rose @effie_elle_]

Being upset with me because I refuse to tolerate the same thing(s) that you do or “would have” is a very untamed way to exert your free will.

While suffering may be honorable to you, “No, Thank You. I’ll be excused. Take Care, Beloved”.

I play a lot, just NEVER about me!

[the Gardener & the Rose @effie_elle_]

When your preference becomes the death of you, and all of the unhealthy signs were available… I think that says far more about YOU!

[the Gardener & the Rose @effie_elle_]

Love mostly lives in boring “Tuesday”behavior.

[the Gardener & the Rose @effie_elle_]

In a world where you can literally be anything, please, just be Kind.

[the Gardener & the Rose @effie_elle_]

You’ve only got this one life to become everything that you’ve ever dreamed of.

Be optimistic. Be dedicated. Be delusional. Be ridiculous… but be sure to just BE!!!

[the Gardener & the Rose @effie_elle_]

I've since discovered love in places I never thought to look. And when it wasn't present in a given moment, I chose to become it🤎

[the Gardener & the Rose @effie_elle_]

Having one partner is not only a strong indicator of discipline and self-respect but also good personal hygiene.

[the Gardener & the Rose @effie_elle_]

Not everything requires a conversation. Some things simply require obedient acceptance.

[the Gardener & the Rose @effie_elle_]

I’d rather gnaw at my tongue with the teeth of a meth head before I RE-ask a mf for the very thing they’d already heard me ask for when I’d asked them for it the 1st time… with me knowing I’m the WILL and the WAY.

Call it Ego… meh🤷🏾‍♀️

[the Gardener & the Rose @effie_elle_]

When the rains falls, it doesn’t just fall on one man’s house.

[the Gardener & the Rose @effie_elle_]

Trying to save a mf from themselves will cost you you, and that’s a very expensive ticket.

[the Gardener & the Rose @effie_elle_]

Sometimes an idea or theoretical belief in a moment runs so deep for me that I tangle my words while trying to verbalize or contextually structure the thought.

I both love and hate that for me💡

[the Gardener & the Rose @effie_elle_]

I 🤎 everything about being BLACK.
I’d aggressively choose to be BLACK in EVERY lifetime!

Hell, in the next lifetime, if my only option was to be black volcanic rock, black tar, the color black, soil… idc, I’d choose that!

We’re so Beautiful, talented, creative, profound…

[the Gardener & the Rose @effie_elle_]

My favorite form of reassurance is when life confirms to me that that “tough decision” that I made was, in fact, the right one.

🥀 < 🌹

[the Gardener & the Rose @effie_elle_]

… and when you see me tuck this stomach in these mfn panties…
BAD BxTCH mode activated. MUAH💋 😉

[the Gardener & the Rose @effie_elle_]

People can’t listen or receive the message amid being clouded by their emotions. Emotions make you human, but if mismanaged, there’s a great propensity that they’ll be the death of you.

Stay dangerous🤎

[the Gardener & the Rose @effie_elle_]

Nothing’s ever a waste when knowledge is acquired.

[the Gardener & the Rose @effie_elle_]

People generally don’t act their age; they act their stage.
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Where a person is in their life and in their walk will consistently be reflected in the way they act, respond, and initiate.