A very disturbing trait of narcissists, typically those with strong envy and psychopathic tendencies, is their ability to mimic the people they envy while simultaneously trying to destroy them. Often called mirroring, where a narcissist mimics someone else's personality, mannerisms, interests, and even life choices. This isn’t done out of admiration but rather out of a need to consume that person’s identity and then replace them. It’s almost like psychological identity theft. At the same time, they seek to undermine the original person through gaslighting, lies, and smear campaigns. They attack the very person they are copying, trying to break their confidence and make them question their own identity. By eliminating the original they ”take ownership” of the traits they are mimicking. It is profoundly disturbing when you witness someone doing this to you.
Textbook female narc behavior. They never learn or change or get better either. This same antisocial/bullying behavior continues into adulthood, they simply up the ante and their schemes and become more sophisticated, which means groups *never* figure out it’s them pulling the strings. They are calculated schemers, obsessed with creating hierarchies, profoundly insecure and control obsessed and will do anything in their power to maintain their stranglehold on a group/social dynamic. The normal rules of decorum, honesty, and integrity DO NOT apply to them. That’s why it’s so dangerous for neurodivergent/adhd people to get wrapped up in certain social settings with people. We have adept pattern recognition, on top of not following any hierarchy at all. We are also blunt and open with what we see and what’s going on. We will risk losing connections and facing “abandonment” along with ostracism because we genuinely believe in our ethical code and what we stand for. This will create a cause and effect reaction where the bully (and her meek followers/flying monkeys) go twice as hard on you. Only a few in the group ever figure out what’s going on and that usually takes years. This is clearly psychotic behavior btw. They make you the whole problem in this process too lol I wish there were more TV shows/movies on this topic
لطالما آمنت بالكارما، أو "بالحوبة" كما يُقال
لكن لم أتخيل يومًا ما أن أشهد على موقف حيث تعود الكارما فيه على شخص ما بشكل مُطابق تمامًا لما فعله هذا الشخص في الماضي، لدرجة أن ما حصل له يكاد يكون لا يُصدّق أبدًا ولو لم أشهد ما حصل بنفسي لما صدّقت أبدًا!
Et ta l’inverse ceux qui ont cet âge mais bloqué en couple et malheureux pck ils ont un crédit en commun ou peuvent pas divorcer car ça diviserait leur niveau de vie
I babysit for upper middle class American millennials and they are raising insane narcissists like it’s so bizarre it doesn’t even make sense no discipline but lots of passive aggressive resentment!!!!
The Realest people are EXTREMELY SELECTIVE. They have very few to no friends. They maintain a polite distance from most people. They possess high-level thinking and recognize people's low self-esteem, hidden jealousy, and strategic kindness. That's why they are the most isolated.
u were likely not the problem, u were just the first one on their hit list lol. friend groups like these are highly volatile and once they kick out the "odd one," the countdown for the next victim begins. the math is always mathing and the drama is always dramaing
models are supposed to be beautiful 10/10 to inspire people to be more beautiful. THEY SYMBOLIZE BEAUTY average people are not models average people are average people and that is okay there is no shame in that