Marriage isn’t “I promise to love you until I stop loving you.” It’s “I promise to make a conscious decision to continue to love you even when it’s hard because I’m aware no one is perfect, but you are worth it.”
blaming Ariana because she “left him at his lowest” perpetuates a very harmful ideal that women should stay in toxic relationships and “save” them.
when someone’s “lowest” becomes toxic and potentially harmful, you have every right to leave and the results are NOT your fault
Getting your shit together requires a level of honesty you can’t even imagine. There’s nothing easy about realizing you’re the one that’s been holding you back this whole time.
It was a BLIZZARD this morning. Then it was a sunny cloudless day for awhile until it began DOWNPOURING?? And it was beautiful again about 30 seconds ago but I just looked out my window and it’s HAILING?? Even as a buffalo native I am still sitting here bamboozled