I’m not teaching anyone how to be a good friend at this point in my life. We can always navigate personal preferences and boundaries. But if the basic skills of relating aren’t already in place, nothing personal, but it’s a no for me.
Be discerning with people who want blind loyalty but don’t have the basic skills to take ownership for harms, accountability for mistakes or the awareness of how to do the work to repair damage they have done to their relationships. These are all valid red flags.
Many times when I walk away from relationships it has nothing to do with being upset, mad, or unforgiving. It actually has to do with me noticing the amount of emotional labor I would need to do based on that persons relationship blueprint and it just feels draining to be honest.
This is exactly how the Moksha Trikona (the 4th, 8th, and 12th water houses) operates when functioning at its highest evolutionary frequency. These houses are our psychological basements. The 4th house maps our deep subconscious conditioning, the 8th house holds our raw shadow instincts, and the 12th house rules our hidden, unmanifested ancestral patterns.
When a person stops fearing these dark rooms, they naturally develop a rare kind of radar. They can see straight through everyone's social masks because they have already confronted those exact same skeletons in their own closet. You simply cannot lie to someone who has survived and integrated their own inner underworld. It is the difference between textbook psychology and raw psychic sight.
A major part of their transmutation power comes from how they process reality. When an individual consciously directs their focus here, they activate their internal alchemical energy (8H) and willingly dissolve their personal ego (12H). Adverse situations don't break them because they don't view life linearly; they view it cyclically. They understand that every structural collapse in their life is just space being cleared out for a massive evolutionary upgrade.
Because of this, they don't just tolerate the dark night of the soul; they look at it as a spiritual laboratory. The 4th house roots them in absolute emotional truth, the 8th house pulls back the veil on hidden motives, and the 12th house detaches them from the need to judge. That is why they can sit comfortably with other people's heaviest trauma without absorbing it, running away from it, or flinching at the rawest of human truths.
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Prominent placements in 4H, 8H, 12H, if used in an alchemical way, really can make one very much in tuned with their own depths & because of that, those of others' too. They generally are not scared of the rawest of raw truths & they also have this deep understanding of where anyone is coming from (pov wise). They also have this ability to transmute adverse situations & turn them in their favour leading to inner growth & great leaps of changes.
Prominent placements in 4H, 8H, 12H, if used in an alchemical way, really can make one very much in tuned with their own depths & because of that, those of others' too. They generally are not scared of the rawest of raw truths & they also have this deep understanding of where anyone is coming from (pov wise). They also have this ability to transmute adverse situations & turn them in their favour leading to inner growth & great leaps of changes.
considering paimon's ability in time manipulation and her undeniable link to the celestia (based on her details),
mondstat having the deep connection to "time" aka istaroth/venti,
venti's region being the first one we ever visitied which was GUIDED BY PAIMON..