Secondly,
You can be reacting to trauma and think you are being wise; fighting what doesn't exist e.g spending on clothes uncontrollably simply because you barely had proper clothes growing up.
These 2 things can miss lead a person
1. Passion
2. Pain
You can love something and follow blindly to distruction e.g loving a career that can't keep you not to talk of keeping a family.
On a serious note agile methodology is just the best approach to life. This one no be tech. The core of Agile, is prioritizing forward advacnement instead of perfection
The joy of listening to music sometimes is learning from people's experiences; there's this connection. I wonder what people listening to AI-generated songs are actually listening to. Can't relate.