seeing a lot of people saying it’s encouraging to see 30+ yr olds with fun living spaces and let me tell you the older i get the more i can express myself not only in my living space but in my life in general. you can only go up
Girls in their 30s be like, “OMG I’m so behind,” but meanwhile they’ve healed their inner child, stopped people pleasing, left that toxic job, started therapy, learned to enjoy their own company, travel when they want, and actually like themselves now. They’re not behind. They’re growing, evolving, finally putting themselves first, and becoming the person they always needed to be. Sis, you’re not behind. You’re exactly where you’re supposed to be.
You need to be slowmaxxing. You need to be reading long, fat books. You need to be making 48-hour chocolate chip cookies. You need to spend hours watching wildlife, you need to spend 15+ min making your coffee. You need to breathe in and breathe out. You need to be slowwwwwwwwww.
Ngl, adult friendships require grace. People are very busy. People are healing. People are growing. People are taking time for self care just like you. Less communication isn't less love. Check in not out.