@SafeHavenWins@MysteeqMessiah@DrKalu_ You can say that to your good for nothing father who couldn't raise you properly enough to engage in a decent conversation.
@Anavi_Felix You're correct. However, a man must demonstrate the capacity to cater to a family by performing marriage rites. It's never cheap anywhere, including your own family.
Having said that, money has never prevented a serious man from getting married.
@Zwitzerlan@MysteeqMessiah@DrKalu_ You are too rude and nauseating, proof that no bride price was paid for your mother, a product of illegitimate relationship, faked as marriage.
I truly sympathize with your predicament ๐คก
@EssangRolland@MysteeqMessiah@DrKalu_ No capping. Just mention one tribe or community in Nigeria where proper marriage is inexpensive, and tell me how inexpensive it is.
If it's free in your community you let me know.
The ignorance and hypocrisy online is nauseating.
@TheRedSavannah@MysteeqMessiah@DrKalu_ I know you can give away your daughter to any good for nothing so that she won't remain in your house. That's how cheap you can get.
@KingDreyObani@OmoteOse@DrKalu_ You see, low life like you will continue to lament.
Grow up, and face reality, marriage is not validation of value.
Real men pay bride price with pride not with loads of complaints.
@agbaboxer@DrKalu_ In Onitcha, they do not give away a 9yr old girl for 12 cows, as a pride price. God forbid! Child abuse is an international crime, taking bride price is not.
@DrKalu_@Eyenmummy Show us the marriage list of old Bende people, then you can talk. Marriage has never been cheap, at least in Africa and Asia.
Secondly, money has never prevented any serious man to get properly married.
Your man in your story was not ready.
@OmoteOse@DrKalu_ Valuable women have never been cheap. Only men not ready for marriage see problems with the marriage list. Proper marriage has never been cheap, at least in Africa and Asia. But you know, some men married through short cut and see it as normal
@MysteeqMessiah@DrKalu_ You are very correct! Imo ladies, especially Mbaise ladies are not cheap. Rather concentrate in your area where your maidens are for give away.
Value does not come cheap.