Fine wine🥂

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[Alexander Ehanire @HrhKingAlex]

Haba ! When a woman succeeds some of you become very unfortunate in your analysis.

Shalom did not wake up 4 days ago and “vibe code” her way into Lagos Life.

She is a first-class software engineer who has been writing code since she was barely 18.

I know because I hired her as my first software engineer when I was building my startup.

She was ridiculously good even then. Years later, I wrote in support of her UK Global Talent because the talent was never in doubt.

Reducing years of mastery to “vibe coding” just to sell your training is incredibly lazy.

At least respect the Engineer before you use the ‘woman’ card.

[zaza @izzlax]

Mr and Mrs Afo ❤️

[Blaxx🦇 @biggblaxxx]

when you’re down bad financially but no one believes u cuz you don’t give broke vibes

[ely kreimendahl @ElyKreimendahl]

not only am i comfortable with it, it is my greatest passion

[Sufi Woman😈 @kikiokeke]

They look like those children they banish into the evil forest in Nigerian movies

[Cinthia @cinthiasustaeta]

I wanna quit my job to focus on going to the gym in the mornings instead

[Riley Freeman @TrillaryBlinton]

Zach just walks around the villa shitting on the girls, enabling the boys bad behavior, and secretly hating Kayda. I hate him

[Big Sev @PrinceCharmer_]

No sundresses in sight. Just Sambas and oversized jorts 🥲

[Ex-Grammaton Cleric @OtunbaBrickz]

All of you GenZ’s and unlearned millennials that clown Nigeria asking mockingly “why are we even called Giant of Africa, self?” this is why!

In the 60s-90s, Nigeria was literally Africa’s sugar daddy, $20m here, $10m there, and so on and so forth to other African countries! we didn’t only talk about Pan-Africanism we put our money where our mouth was.

Also, at independence, many African countries didn’t have as many educated professionals as Nigeria. In a lot of African countries that gained independence after us from 1963 onwards, the first chief justice, auditor general, surgeon general, vice chancellors of universities were all Nigerians! The first black chief justice of Botswana was Akinola Aguda, the first black chief justice of Gambia was Emmanuel Ayoola, when the portuguese left Mozambique in the 70s Nigerian health care officers (doctors and nurses) were sent to shore up their healthcare system from collapse bcos they just didn’t have enough qualified doctors. after all said and done we sent over 10,000 professionals across africa and the carribeans to help them incubate their newly independent nations

should we even talk about the ECOMOG troops in the 90s that 70% majorly funded (spent over $3b+) and equipped by Nigeria with Nigerian soldiers forming 75% of the peacekeeping force? ECOMOG led by us was highly responsible for ending the Liberian and Sierra Leonean civil wars.

I won’t even go into details of what Nigeria contributed to the South African anti-apartheid efforts!

Nigeria gave and gave and forgot to pay attention to its own development and today we’ve become the pariah amongst nations!

[Nicki 🫧🪷 @nickimoraa]

The Bible warns us not to look back at old friendships or any relationships that God has delivered us from. Lot's wife did and literally became stuck in time. My prayer is that when you're tempted to return to the past, the spirit reminds you there's so much more ahead of you!

[SisiYėmmié.com 🌶 @Sisi_Yemmie]

Wine is made from grapes.
Grapes are plants.
Wine is salad.

[Miyandy @Amahashi_]

I worked 20 years for a child sex trafficking rescue group. I want you to know this:

90% of Lost Children Are Found Within 30 Minutes.

That statistic should both comfort you and wake you up.

Most lost children are found quickly. But the ones who aren’t? They usually made one mistake.

And here’s the uncomfortable truth:

It’s often the exact thing most parents teach them.

We tell our kids:

“If you get lost, come find me.”

It sounds logical. It sounds empowering.

It’s WRONG!

The Mistake Most Lost Children Make:

When children realize they’re separated, they do three things almost automatically:

They panic.
They wander.
They try to find you.

Every step makes them harder to locate.

From a search standpoint, movement creates chaos.

Parents retrace their steps.
Security scans zones.
Staff lock down areas.

Search works best when movement stops.

When a child keeps walking, they move outside the original search radius. Helpers are looking where they were last seen — not where they’ve wandered.

Stillness increases probability.

Movement expands the problem.

The first lesson is not “go find me.”

It’s this:

Stop. Stay. Yell.

Why Stillness Wins:

Think like a search team.

If a child stays put:

Parents can retrace steps.
Security can scan systematically.
Helpers converge to one fixed location.
The search radius remains small.
If a child keeps moving:

The search area expands.
Adults pass each other.
Missed connections multiply.
Minutes stretch into hours.
Stillness keeps the math on your side.

Teach Them Who to Approach:

The second mistake we make as parents?

We say, “Find an adult.”

Not any adult. Not the nearest stranger. Children need a filter.

Teach them to look for, if at all possible:

A mother with children.

Caregivers who already have kids with them are statistically among the safest people to approach in public settings. They are visible, stationary, and more likely to engage quickly.

It’s a clear, concrete instruction.

Children don’t process vague categories like “safe adult.”

They process visuals.

“Find a mom with kids” is visual.

A Phone Only Helps If the Number Is Known:

We often assume phones solve everything.

They don’t — unless your child can use one. Even young children can memorize a 10-digit phone number with repetition.

But you must train it.

Practice it like a song.

Sing it in the car.
Chant it at bedtime.
Turn it into rhythm.

Repetition becomes recall.

In an emergency, recall matters more than theory.

The Code Word Rule:

One more layer of protection.

Choose a private family code word.

Something only your household knows.

If someone approaches and says:

“Your mom sent me.”

Your child asks:

“What’s the code word?”

No word.
No go.

This simple rule eliminates manipulation attempts instantly.

It gives your child agency without requiring them to evaluate character.

Real Safety Is Training — Not Luck!

We don’t get safer by hoping.

We get safer by practicing.

Teach:

• Phone number
• Code word
• Stop, stay, yell
• Find a mom with kids

Multiple skills.
Simple instructions.
Clear visuals.

Five minutes of training can replace hours of panic. This isn’t about fear. It’s about preparation.

Because when a child gets separated, the clock starts.

And what they do in the first minute determines what the next thirty look like.

That’s real protection.

[datnina @blackhadid1]

there’s just so much that can go right

[⭐️IT GIRL⭐️ @aliyahInterlude]

yall we in a crush recession, i ain’t had a crush since B.C. , before covid

[cinesthetic. @TheCinesthetic]

This was one of the scariest scenes to watch as a kid.

[Whemïmor @hy_wemmy]

I’m quite obsessed with ease, I don’t like difficult things and situations.

[MONALEO 🎀 @themonaleo]

Sisterhood is one of the most wholesome forms of love i’ve ever felt . No incentives just showing up for one another by choice. No judgment or scrutiny. Just support. I love my sisters i love my besties i love my girls !!!

[T!🎀 @jesu__tofunmii]

canceling plans because of sun or heat is a very valid reason if you ask me

[RNB RADAR @rnbradar]

very underrated album